I value gifts of effort and heart more than the cost of the gift.
A handmade card has much more individuality & sincerity than some expensively designed bday card..
A handpicked gift which suits me perfectly spells the careful consideration taken in selecting the gift and thus shows the heart and love..
I dislike group gatherings to celebrate my bday but are not planned in anyway.. (especially those that results in big boring disappointments..)
I dislike group gifts which are hurriedly bought without careful considerations.
The gift will be classified as one that shows pretense of heart.
ie. oh, it's ur bday. oh, we need a gift. oh, let's just get u this. coz it solves our dilemma of choosing the gift. if it's sincere, just a good gathering without a gift would do more to feel loved..
*ps: maybe it's me.. maybe i hv higher demands for friends? but this is how i feel.. and sometimes i dunno how to express myself in a way which ain't myself. i've always been wearing my mood on my face to my real frens.. i realli dun mean to show my disappointment to my fellow mates in the past and i'm realli still glad the thought of it is present. =)
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